Not knowing what you want or how to move forward can feel paralyzing and debilitating.
Not fun at all.
The worst feeling I know is confusion that seems to have no light at the end of the tunnel.
And the best feeling is coming out of the darkness into the light and seeing clearly.
Abraham told me in my latest hot seat discussion that “The depth of your confusion is always proportionate to the depth of your clarity. And the depth of your alignment is proportional to your mis-alignment.”
In this week’s Lana TV episode, I’m sharing why being confused and experiencing contrast is good for your manifestation muscles.
I also give two steps for overcoming confusion and embracing the call for becoming a better you.
So when you feel the muck of something-is-off-ness coming over you, try these two steps to let the chaos guide you to order.
1. Acknowledge it’s happening
We spend a lot of time and energy sweeping our confusion under the rug, until it starts to suffocate us. Catch that feeling of confusion and discomfort as early as possible, and then determine which area of your life its coming from. Acknowledge what you don’t want and identify the opposite, what you do want, more clearly.
2. Allow yourself to look for opportunities to experience what you do want
Once you know what you want, start looking for opportunities to find it and experience it. Focus on what you want until its amplified. Allow the process of transition to unfold, honor what’s now leaving your life, create space for the new, and be patient.
I hope this episode inspires you to embrace the confusion and contrast showing up in your life and unwrap the gifts that it brings.
Recognize that its not there to punish you; you didn’t do anything wrong. The contrast is just calling you to be something more.
Now I’d love to read your comment for how you deal with confusion: how do you utilize contrast to gain clarity?
I LOVED This. We hardly every tend to think of confusion in a positive sense.. I always try to shrug it off until it starts to explode on me and then I think of a way out.. but this is amazing.. and btw i LOVED the new website – cant wait for the programs to open up!!! and btw you look GORGEOUS in the pixx.. loads of Love & Blessings ! Sanaa
Thank you Sanaa, I’m so glad you liked the post, and the website! You had no idea how much I experienced confusion on this site 🙂 But I feel it truly came out amazing
Very timely, thank you. I’ve been stuck in a place of confusion for….uh, 4yrs now to the point of burnout. The biggest challenge is that I don’t seem to know what I want. I’ve wet my feet in several areas, nothing pans out. I have a big picture idea of what I want, but the under current or back chatter in my brain is “oh yeah, like that’ll ever happen.” So thoughts and beliefs at odds with each other. How do you start focusing on what you want, and actually believe it??
Much love!!
Yes, that’s the ultimate confusion Ana! Knowing what you want, but not having the permission to go for it. My suggestion would be to find ways to experience what you want little by little and continue to move in that direction step by step. Also, working with someone like me to understand, embrace and transform some of the underlying fears could be very powerful. I know at times I reach out for support from others to help me move in the direction of my dreams!
thank you for this!!
I needed it RIGHT NOW!!! perfect advice to dive into right now 🙂
Can’t wait to poke around your new site.
Congrats!!!
xo
OMG I LOVE the site!!! it’s amazing!! so perfect!!!! congrats xo
Thanks Laura! I appreciate your support and love.
So glad! Hope you found the clarity and are now appreciating even the confusion and contrast that led you there, Laura!
Reminds me of when I was freaking out recently, and it led to me having a life changing episode of such clarity, that I felt appreciation for the freaking out!
It’s always like that, isn’t it Tembisa? Contrast leads to clarity. And the more we embrace that the quicker we can receive the gifts!
i go into the Vortex. That’s where Clarity is.
Yes, Terry! And wonderful contrast adds to the vortex!
Brilliant! I am in that phase of CONFUSION and it has been getting worse as my site was nearing its completion. I see now that I am and was transition from the old to the new. So much left to do but now I see why I’ve been feeling like a caotic mess for the last month. Sending you lots of love xxx